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IMDB rating: 6.70 Plot: Five months after the birth of his son, Mel Coplin remains unable to name the child until he has met his own biological parents and discovered who he “really is.” He, his wife Nancy, and his social-worker-in-training Tina Kalb jet off to California to meet his birth mother—who turns out not to be his mother, due to an error with the agency’s adoption records. The quartet sets out in search of Mel’s real parents, with tensions growing because of the sexual chemistry lacking between Mel and Nancy and growing between Mel and Tina. |
Actors: Stiller Ben,Alda Alan,Segal George,Brolin Josh,Jenkins Richard,Fitzgerald Glenn,Kelly David Patrick,Noonan John Ford,Comedy,
How to put the past behind me and move on without being worried?
I used to be with this guy, Mike. We were really serious and I was in love. But he hurt me. He flirted a lot with other girls beind my back (maybe more, but flirt is all i foud out) and sometimes wouldnt talk to me for days.
This was years ago and we tried dating other people, it wasa disaster for bth of us and we have decided to give it another try. He knows what he did and I have explained and confronted him about it and he has made up for it. He even came to visit me when I lived in florida away from everyone and no one else came to see me. So yeah, we are back together and I stilll love him.
Relationships need trust and I can’t stop secretely being paranoid or worried I’m going to get hurt again. I have even been tempted to get on his facebook and see what he is saying to others girls but I know thats wrong and to make this work I need to trust him and move on from the past.
I understand where you are coming from, you need to relax and let him work it out with you as you to him. You will need to learn to trust him and the need to look at his personal things like facebook may once again hurt your relationship because your trust is gonna be a factor in your relationship, just let it flow, if he cheats on you or if he does something in back of you then it shall come out sooner than later.
| Sep 18, 2009
The best way to trust a person is to be completely open with that person. Tell him this whole thing, tell him everything. Don’t attack him or accuse him, but tell him how you are feeling. He will find a way to prove it to you. It will also help to keep him from being tempted if he is thinking about it all the time.
Tuetis | Sep 18, 2009
There is a saying..’once bitten,twice shy’…i think that you are in a vicious circle..you have a right to feel concerned becuz of what happened before….you want to trust him but your instinct tells you otherwise…again i think that if you’ve given him a second chance you should at least see it thru..allow him to prove he can be trusted..if at any point he proves he isnt then you have tried your best and somehow you have to move on….spying on him altho you feel justified might make him move away from you especially if hes innocent…he might find it hard to trust you…if he thinks your always gonna check up on him even tho you have past reason….?if hes not innocent then as hard a sit seems he will eventualy trip up…until you have solid evidence give him the benefit of the doubt…but if you go looking for it..you may find that things will go bad for both of you…
Lickity split! | Sep 18, 2009
This is what dating is about getting to know someone so well that you can feel comfortable to marry that person, go slow see if this is what you really wont if not take some time off from Guys and wait and see what the guy Gods bring next. good luck to ya
blue | Sep 18, 2009
i believe on "once a cheater always a cheater" even thought you say he was just flirting, i still wouldn’t accept it.
something similar happened to me, i did put up with it for the longest time till i got tired of it. i know i deserve some one who treats me like i should be treated
he has a child (whit the girl he had cheated on me with) and believe me he loves his kid a lot but wishes he would of done things right.
he did wanted to come back but i couldn’t do it, i also did think he was going to do it again(cheat) even after he swore he would only had eyes for me but i couldn’t go back i was too hurt.
it did took me some time but i’m glad i did not give in again(i dont think it would of worked out at all anymore no matter how happy we were b4 he cheated)
i am married to a nice guy who is real nice to me and i’m pregnant!!!
best thing to do is to find new things to do to not think about him. go out with you friends.
Princesa Z | Sep 18, 2009
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